Do It Like They Do On The Discovery Channel...

My chaotic and haphazard way of trying to put this wedding together has me all over the place. I'm having issues with theme (to have one or not), colors (blue, brown, pink, black, grey, tan red, purple, orange...sigh), venue (indoors? outdoors?), hell, I'm having a hard time with the season - fall? Summer? Spring? I have NO idea.

"We" don't seem to have a song. So I thought I'd find a suitable song and maybe that would help dictate some of the rest of the stuff, since music is so influential for me...Now, this (of course) made me reminisce a little - thinking of the songs that have been part of my previous relationships and I'm thankful I didn't need to incorporate some of those songs into a wedding - any of you remember Bloodhound Gang's "The Bad Touch"? Yeah...well.....

Anyway...I've been listening to songs, lots of songs, and I find one that actually is sort of nice, has a sweet sentiment...I heard it somewhere, thought "Oh, that's pretty, I'll look it up later". I looked it up....It's still sweet....but apparently it was made popular (not on the alternative station I mainly listen to) by the movie Twilight - now...I've not seen the movie, nor have I read the book (they're on the same list with Titanic - basically, I'll only watch if threatened with bodily harm to someone I love).

I know I'm being...snobbish...but...I have a VERY hard time thinking my wedding will be associated with *Twilight*....ugh....just...idk...kill me now....

Now, I do have a fun idea for our wedding if we decide to go the quirky route - which I'm very tempted to do. I can't share it but it's really funny, and will certainly make it something more than the traditional ceremony/reception....and it has everything to do with the "first dance"...*sigh*

I think my head might explode...

A Hawaiian cliff sounds more and more appealing....lol

(Oh, and this is the song from Twilight *shudder* - The Bad Touch doesn't seem so bad)...